They have given him…..

……..This is a term we keep hearing right now.

They ‘gave’ him 10-12 months last December.

Last Thursdays they ‘gave’ him a couple months.

My first thought? How DARE they only ‘give’ him a couple months.

Give him a couple YEARS yet. We have grandchildren to spoil!! Lennox will NOT understand “Papa’s not here honey. Papa’s not here.”

And neither will the rest…..

and neither do I anymore…..



About Boo

Grandmother to 11....or is it 12 now? Getting back into life after losing the love of my life to cancer. Read my struggles with daily life........or don't. But I hope it helps ONE person get thru the same thing I went thru......
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10 Responses to They have given him…..

  1. fredrieka says:

    bless you

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  2. joliesattic says:

    Sadly, the medical profession has not figured out how to convey this kind of information correctly, but you are absolutely right to be hurt and angry. Give yourself that right. God has big shoulders. Prayers & hugs.

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  3. Val Ewing says:

    Doctors don’t know how long ‘we have’ and can only make educated guesses. And it hurts when they do. Suddenly we are left facing mortality and it is very frightening.
    Cancer comes in so many forms and we don’t know how to stop it yet.
    Anger and hurt are how we feel when we get this news.
    I know Nick said that it “Sucked because he had so many things he wanted to do yet.”
    Hugs to you.

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  4. A Perfectmindstorm says:

    I think now is the time to focus on each day and don’t dwell on what the doctor says about how long he may have. Only God knows . But TODAY he is still here. One day at a time sweety.


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