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I may have posted this photo before.

People who love someone with cancer “has it too”

But the caregiver? “……is also dying from it.”


About Boo

Grandmother to 11....or is it 12 now? Getting back into life after losing the love of my life to cancer. Read my struggles with daily life........or don't. But I hope it helps ONE person get thru the same thing I went thru......
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7 Responses to Family…………

  1. joliesattic says:

    I hadn’t heard from you in awhile. You are so right! I hit “like” not because I like your situation but because I so know how you feel and agree with the above statement. It’s a hard place to be and unfortunately no one can “fix” it, but know this we (your blog friends) are here rooting for you, praying for you and supporting you all the way!

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  2. joliesattic says:

    I understand. That happens. I was fortunate in that regard, my siblings were all supportive. The ones who were troublesome were outsiders, neighbors and such. Not so much with Dad who had cancer but with mother who had Alzheimer’s. She would pace for hours every day, so on the few times we attempted to take her for a walk to expend some energy, or so we hoped, she would sit down and throw child like tantrums in the driveway or sidewalk. She was strong and mobile until we were out in public. Her dead weight would make it difficult to lift her, so we would plead with her to get up. On one occasion a neighbor came by and she obediently stood for her making it look even worse. We never could figure that out, but the neighbors probably thought we were abusing her. Thank goodness we had Hospice and others closely monitoring us to verify we were not. When she passed away, they told us, they only wish they will get as good a care she did. But, it was still hard to take the nosy rosies and know it all’s of this world.

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  3. Ronda says:

    Helpless here, all I can do is keep sending you hugsssssss xoxoxoxo ❤

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  4. Val Ewing says:

    I get that, sometimes family is nice but not exactly what is needed. I have lots of stories on “what we should have done and how” advice from idiot family folks.

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  5. fredrieka says:

    Micro managing seems to be a disease as well. They probably mean well and are trying to sort it all out for themselves more than for you

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