I just need to say something here….

…..I GET that y’all don’t like what Brian is doing.

But I do know the situation. And believe it or not, how many men today do follow through on their word?

Not many.

I feel he has and that is an honorable thing. What he really did wrong was get involved with me before FINISHING that situation, or telling me about it BEFORE we got involved. I would have not gone out with him and he knows this.

The question really is……has he honored his word long enough? Or is he now enabling?

I personally think he needs to let go. They will either continue to stand. Or fail and fall. But that is THEIR choice. Not his. This person is old enough to pay the consequences.

often it is the most deserving people who cannot help loving those who destroy them


About Boo

Grandmother to 10....no 11....or is it 12 now? Getting back into life after losing the love of my life to cancer. Read my struggles with daily life........or don't. But I hope it helps ONE person get thru the same thing I went thru......
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14 Responses to I just need to say something here….

  1. We can’t help it… we worry about you and only want the best. I understand he needs to stop enabling, just be sure you’re not starting!

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  2. Rusty Armor says:

    You like ’em serially monogamous, eh? 😉

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  3. Jim says:

    my view is you’re a big girl and you don’t need no advice from the “Peanut Gallery” (me) but the teasing is thrown in free of charge.

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  4. Jim says:

    OMG. I’m amongst heathens. you’re killing me smalls.


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  5. Time will tell how things will work out. I just want the best for you. Its a brand new year! that in itself is exciting to see what changes it brings! Hope you’re having a good weekend. 🙂

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