I spent yesterday afternoon getting my stuff from asshat’s house.
He had only a bit of my stuff tucked into the back bedroom instead of on the porch as I asked. I sent him a list. He is just too arrogant to listen. I did NOT want to go in his house. My friend Barb was with me, SHE finally got the written permission to go in the house.
Several items on the list I sent him , he didn’t put with the rest of the stuff. This included the curtains in his bedroom and my bathrobe. I couldn’t find the wooden box that should have been by the fireplace.
So I go in the bedroom to get the curtains and lo and behold, there is the wooden box. At the side of the bed like a step stool. And the bed is unmade (which he NEVER does) showing covers thrown back from both sides like two people were there.
I grabbed my curtains, my bathrobe, some clothes from a drawer, my wooden box and laughed my ass off all the way to the car with them. Apparently the new victim is too short to get up on his high bed. I just laughed. And laughed. and thought how he was thinking he was upsetting me by letting me know he has someone new already.
Hell, I knew that two weeks ago! And figured she’s been around since Nov.
I went back through his texts last night.
SO much makes sense now.
He was such a bad liar but then I didn’t catch it right away either.
Am I done with men? For now. He’s left a bad attitude in me.
But it won’t last because if it does? That means he wins and he is NOT going to win.
He is a loser and I’m somewhat upset with myself for not catching it sooner.